tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2521256816974606164.post4916153785802442608..comments2024-02-21T23:33:41.359-07:00Comments on Only a little Sugar-Coated: Loaded Words: Forgivenessjenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14191688082941672114noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2521256816974606164.post-66423972558460582122012-05-03T17:25:02.503-06:002012-05-03T17:25:02.503-06:00I like this thought, "accepting what's ha...I like this thought, "accepting what's happened has happened and is a part of me and has shaped how I act and react now and being at peace with me now."<br /><br />And I agree, I think it is different for everyone and for every situation. <br />Thanks for your thoughts. :)jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14191688082941672114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2521256816974606164.post-5108120011227338882012-05-02T12:55:02.992-06:002012-05-02T12:55:02.992-06:00Forgiveness is confusing to me and I've been t...Forgiveness is confusing to me and I've been thinking a lot about it lately. How do I know if I've forgiven someone? Will I feel different? Will I feel better? Probably not. I've decided that forgiveness absolutely does not mean forgetting or condoning but probably for me accepting what's happened has happened and is a part of me and has shaped how I act and react now and being atCarolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12901409841934013091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2521256816974606164.post-1837014314385182932012-04-30T13:56:28.058-06:002012-04-30T13:56:28.058-06:00I will always be very wary of people telling me to...I will always be very wary of people telling me to forgive... Might be because I am wary of anyone telling me what I should do. And it also seems that those who tell me to forgive usually say it, not because they actually care if I forgive or not... They just want me to do something that serves them. <br /><br />And thanks, it means a lot when someone I admire as much I admire you says I'm jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14191688082941672114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2521256816974606164.post-52302665560343116962012-04-30T13:53:31.827-06:002012-04-30T13:53:31.827-06:00<3<3jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14191688082941672114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2521256816974606164.post-59480627950372020662012-04-29T11:02:47.853-06:002012-04-29T11:02:47.853-06:00Forgiveness is the F word for me... my friends kno...Forgiveness is the F word for me... my friends know not to use it because it just makes me mad, sad and guilty. Mainly because I don't know how to forgive, and also because I don't want to. I feel like he doesn't deserve it. People say forgiveness is for me and not for him, but it doesn't feel that way. Forgiveness has always seemed like saying, "What you did to me was okay,&Ameliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14864956174497778959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2521256816974606164.post-80307840741154704862012-04-28T22:26:24.599-06:002012-04-28T22:26:24.599-06:00<3<3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com