tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2521256816974606164.post5869223746548095257..comments2024-02-21T23:33:41.359-07:00Comments on Only a little Sugar-Coated: The real reason I was upset, and it wasn't what I thought it was.jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14191688082941672114noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2521256816974606164.post-56895292495598463672015-04-20T14:50:06.412-06:002015-04-20T14:50:06.412-06:00I highly value talking about things, so I guess to...I highly value talking about things, so I guess to me, it's most important to talk. So, that's what I chose to do. <br />I'm really glad I did - we are staying in a hotel, and that's one of the things we offered when we talked to them. <br /><br />We also offered not coming.<br /><br />In the conversation, Todd's son brought up how hard it is for him to have his dad no longer jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14191688082941672114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2521256816974606164.post-35349380966188766192015-04-19T12:35:05.448-06:002015-04-19T12:35:05.448-06:00I think you should get a hotel. It's good to ...I think you should get a hotel. It's good to be honest about why you're doing it, but I think the honesty should come after you've already booked the hotel. If they want to insist that you cancel the hotel booking, they can do so. But that way you're not asking them to compromise their beliefs. If you go in to the conversation hoping they will change their mind, then they are Jeffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10357398682419756851noreply@blogger.com