tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2521256816974606164.post7365787409990406139..comments2024-02-21T23:33:41.359-07:00Comments on Only a little Sugar-Coated: Protecting Abusersjenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14191688082941672114noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2521256816974606164.post-32607603736582559942012-01-31T10:23:30.237-07:002012-01-31T10:23:30.237-07:00I actually appreciated the change of subject after...I actually appreciated the change of subject after... I'm not sure I was ready to talk about it more at the moment. <br /><br />And I get the feeling happy for me though, it's one of those things that I call "miraculous shit". It sucks and it's wonderful all at the same time.<br /><br />I do plan on talking to them someday. For the very reason that healing comes when we jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14191688082941672114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2521256816974606164.post-64781533923675122252012-01-30T21:45:58.758-07:002012-01-30T21:45:58.758-07:00I'm glad you told me. I'm sorry it brough...I'm glad you told me. I'm sorry it brought you anxiety. I don't know how to solve the problem, but I definitely know that silence isn't the answer. I know I didn't say much that night. We kind of just moved on to another subject, largely because I didn't know what to say. But I had a talk with mom a few days later. I expressed to her that I felt someone needed to Jeffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10357398682419756851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2521256816974606164.post-91437677123819751192011-12-25T12:47:01.653-07:002011-12-25T12:47:01.653-07:00Kathy - Thank YOU!
N - I too wish I could just DO...Kathy - Thank YOU! <br />N - I too wish I could just DO. Trust myself. There are definitely times when not speaking is best, and there are times when not speaking is harmful... <br /><br />Thank you for your thought and insights. I appreciate YOU.jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14191688082941672114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2521256816974606164.post-75947191704304989482011-12-24T18:05:02.314-07:002011-12-24T18:05:02.314-07:00Wow. This one is tough for me.
I just want to ...Wow. This one is tough for me. <br /><br />I just want to say, I appreciate your bravery and ability to "speak" about this. <br /><br />I wish that I could just DO without having a barrage of thoughts that challenge what ought to be a sensical way of being. Yet, I know I protect the abuser because it seems the <i>right</i> way of being. However, there is that rational side that Sensory Overloadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00799931625992110958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2521256816974606164.post-26307343997330448812011-12-24T14:09:00.903-07:002011-12-24T14:09:00.903-07:00Yeah, I do this too. I justify my silence by sayin...Yeah, I do this too. I justify my silence by saying that what happened to me isn't really that bad compared to some horror stories I have heard. I am glad that you remind me that silence heals no one. Thank you for this post.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07848813343424616324noreply@blogger.com