Monday, August 5, 2013

A rather organic and incredibly perfect process

Here's a completely non-hypothetical question, but can we just pretend it's hypothetical for a few minutes?

Two people are really good friends. They live in the same house, but have separate bedrooms.
They spend time together - no one is really sure when they "fell in love" with each other, because they have loved each other deeply for a long time.

Both people needed time to sort out themselves, and living in the same house, but not being "together" was very conducive to the individual work they each had to do. In the process of the individual work, it became a work on their relationship... a rather organic and incredibly perfect process if you ask me.

Then they went camping together and on a cruise together and other vacations where they shared the same space. And it just seemed natural to sleep together.

So, when they got home and kept sleeping in the same space, does that mean they "moved in together"? And if you start sharing a room with someone, do you need to announce to the world that you are sleeping in the same bed? Is that anyone's business?

Well... anyway... if there needs to be an announcement made, consider this my announcement.
And if there doesn't need to be an announcement made, then this is just about the silliest post I have ever written.


  1. My first inclination is to say this is TMI. But then again, it did occur to me that you were sharing a room on the cruise and that was different than the status I was aware of before that. So maybe the rest of the world does need to know?

    If you're wondering, Robyn and I also share a bed. :)

    1. I WAS wondering. Thanks for clearing that up. :)

  2. I'm not really sure exactly what you are talking about, but I want you to be happy. So, if this is an "I'm happy" announcement, then I am incredibly happy to celebrate it with you. Cheers girl!

  3. One of the things I love most about this... it has happened so effortlessly and so happily. Thank you for sharing!

  4. I am so happy that you are happy, and I am glad that you shared this!

  5. :) Thank you Julia, Angie, and Morrigan. It's been quite the journey over the last three years...