I understand you have been through a lot. I completely get your need to throw temper tantrums, but right now is a very bad time. You see... we are so worn out. We need to rest. We need sleep. We do not need any more body memories, night terrors, panic attacks, etc.
I am completely willing to go through the shit you insist on putting me through, but just not tonight. Please, will you chill out for just one night??
I am glad that we have worked this out. Thank you in advance for your cooperation.