Tuesday, September 29, 2009

I wish it were that easy!

I am frustrated. My friend's facebook status is:
So I know why scum-bag guys exist!!! Do you??? Its because of the pathetic girls they date that LET them be SCUM-BAGS!! Come on girls, have some guts and speak your mind and don't get walked on!!! the end.
Do you think its really that easy?? Some of us were raised to believe we were worthless. Some of us were raised to believe a good woman DOESN'T stand up for herself. Some of us haven't had parents that taught us we COULD. Some of us were beat down every time we tried to stand up for anything. Some have never known what it was like to be treated "right." And some of us just don't like confrontation... telling us to just have some guts and speak your mind... is like telling YOU to never speak your mind again, to be quiet, meek and humble NO MATTER WHAT. You couldn't do it... Or at least it would be really, REALLY hard.

Who are you to judge me? As if its not hard enough to be treated like crap... and now you are going to tell me its my fault? I understand what you are trying to say, and I agree with the idea. but, have some compassion... I think of Brianne, or BJ, or Janyssa, or Elizabeth, or... and I wish people would stop saying such stupid things.

1 comment:

  1. I know it's really, really hard. Just know that you have the right to be treated kindly and fairly. It's not easy to stand up for those rights but you certainly deserve them.